Tuesday, 20 July 2010

MAKING EVERY MOMENT A GOOD MEMORY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP


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Life and love are gifts given to us and they must be fully appreciated. Funny enough, one of the easiest ways to appreciate such wonder things is by giving it away. Oftentimes the meaning of life is taken for granted without the person’s knowledge or consciousness. With life is love, these two cannot be separated as without love there is no life within the person. He will be arrogant; selfish; and bitter.

Everyone has memories of childhood whether it is good or bad. Some try to forget their childhood because of some abuse in the family. This kind of memory must be assisted with counseling and at the same time the person abused must work to see it in another light in order to help other people abused and how to deal with that memory. People sometimes try to forget bad memories but forgetting is not as easy as it sounds. That bad memory will always be imbedded in your sub-consciousness. One way to release it is to seek counseling and make that opportunity of helping others with the same problem. Help others with advocacy. You will be a better and more successful person. The anger within you will be released and you will find peace.  You learn to live through your own tragedies and mistakes. Memories are always imbedded in the sub-consciousness of a person.

Memories of love must be always treasured.  These are the things that will keep the person alive and young at heart. In a person’s younger years he might make a diary of the events that happened on a daily basis or in his life. This practice is good to do because it can help the person to internalize and improve one’s perception of life; his character will be enhanced. Such journals also become cherished keepsakes for your children and grandchildren, as they may remember who they thought you were and perhaps learn more about who you really are and they may learn from your life journey.  

In any relationship, whether it may be childhood; teenage life; courtship; and marriage, one must treasure every moment of events in one’s life. Life is short and people don’t seem to care or appreciate to take time off to be thankful for the good moments and the not so good moments.  Everyone learns a lesson in any moment, whether it is a good or bad memory.  One must search for healing of bad memories in marriage as this will affect not only you but also the children.  An example of this is the abusive husband beating the mother in view of the children. This issue must be brought to a counselor right away so that everyone affected can be guided properly in ways of dealing with this turmoil. It should not be kept from family members as this will cause further problems with the people concerned. These memories must be seen as a challenge to help each other and other people with the same situation. Help each other to solve the problem. Always seek guidance.

Are you making use of all the opportunities life offers you? Each of us has been given a free will to make right choices and decisions. The bad memory is a stepping stone to improvement of oneself; it’s an opportunity to learn from it and help others with the same situation. Make the most of your relationship by giving love freely. Then use memories of past situations that were traumatic in some way to help others. The more love you give, the more you will receive!

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