When you are planning a first date with someone it is natural to be a little nervous about how the day or night might go. You want to have fun and you may even want the time to be romantic, but you are not sure where to go on a first date.
That question has been pondered millions of times by millions of people over the generations. It is really hard to decide where to go on the first day since most of the time, you want to impress your love one but at the same time, you don’t want to go overboard with a date that is too suggestive of intimacy. There are some places you should not go on a first date. Please read the list below.
1) Movie theater. Let me explain why this is not a good idea and how you can work it into the first date if you really want to. The movies are a place to sit and watch – not to talk. Some couples go there to hold hands and even make out. Your goal on a first date is to get to know your new partner – therefore, you will need to talk. And you most likely will need to talk before you get to the making out stage. If you really want to go to a movie then I suggest that you begin your date with a lunch or dinner – something that will give you a chance to get to know your date a little bit.
2) Hotel or motel – even to the lounge. Sorry, but even taking a first to the lounge of a hotel is a bit suggestive. Better to avoid hotels and motels all together for now.
3) Your parent’s house. Even if (or especially if) you live with your parents, the first date is not the time to take your date there. It’s simply awkward and brings up too many issues too soon.
4) To a church service. Church is somewhat like the movie theater – this is a place of worship – not a place to talk and get to know someone. Reconsider that one!
Now, let’s take a look at some places where you could bring your first date.
1) Concert. Of course, not on the indoor one or on rock concerts. You can take your date on an outdoor concert where you can have a nice chat while relaxing outdoors – the type of outdoor concert where the music is not deafening and there is space between you and the next couple.
2) Restaurant. It’s not necessary to go to an expensive or fancy restaurant, just someplace where you can eat and chat. You can even go to your favorite coffee shop just to hang out and talk. Choose a place where the ambience is very good and romantic.
3) Park. Definitely you can bring your date to the park where you’re just walking and talking. It may end up as a picnic date which is very good – a picnic is fun, it can be romantic, and it can showcase your cooking abilities.
4) Museum. It is actually a perfect place for a date, especially if both of you are not art fanatics. Asking why? Because there is a reason for both of you to talk and know each other instead of looking on the artifacts on display. In addition, museums typically have a café or diner where you can eat and continue chatting.
No matter where you decide to go on a first date and regardless of how nice the other person may seem online or on the phone, always take precautions and stay safe. Remember to meet in public places so that both of you will be comfortable and lastly, just enjoy.
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